Return to me with all your heart
By Rev. Otto Schultz, Faith Partners Nebraska, Project Developer
What
picture comes to mind when you think of the word “addict”? Though I know better, the image in my head is
a young, tough guy on the streets of a bombed-out neighborhood in a large
city. He uses needles and is always
restlessly seeking his next fix. I know
better since I worked for many years in a hospital-based Rehab where many of
our addicts were middle-class, middle-aged or older women. What image do you see in your mind even
though you too, may know better?
Consider it for a few moments.
By
now, most of us know that drug and alcohol addiction are equal opportunity
destroyers. They don’t care about age,
gender, class, race, nationality, or religious belief. They hurt many Christian families deeply. In surveys of worshippers in 10 Nebraska
congregations, (N=900) 42% of respondents endorsed the statement that they are
currently concerned about or affected by the alcohol or drug use of someone
close to them. Currently, concerned
about… Currently…
“Addiction”
isn’t solely about drugs. Not every
super fondness for something is an addiction, such as being a diet coke “addict”
or a Big Red Football “addict”. Yet,
there are many harmful addictions besides drugs. They are harmful because they divide our
hearts from God. Among middle class
Americans, the pursuit of wealth can be addictive as it harms our relationships
with God, other people and even our health.
The pursuit of work may become an addiction whether it pays well or not. That pursuit also harms our relationships
with God, other people, and health.
Some
of us so deeply love another person that we become enmeshed in their lives in
ways that are spiritually harmful for them and us. Not only do we sometimes feel responsible for
their choices, but we may take responsibility for those choices. We may fear their fears for them or rescue
them from consequences they need to face.
This is codependency – an addiction to another person.
Addiction
can strike in many ways beyond, drugs, money, work, or another person. Many good things become false gods and divide our hearts from
God. The spiritual problem with any
addiction is that God’s gift becomes a false god – leading us into a darkness
where we are never satisfied. Returning
to God with all our hearts may sound fanatical, but it is the only way to have
a balanced life. Returning to God with
all our heart means that we can enjoy these wonderful gifts of God and use them
in His service.
After
retirement, I was called into God’s service in a new way, working with a group
called Faith Partners. Our mission is to help churches develop a team approach to prevention
and recovery. In many churches there are
people who hunger to do this ministry.
Finding these people, training them, and supporting them as they minister
to their church and community is what Faith Partners is all about.
*Otto Schultz is a
semi-retired Pastor and Licensed Alcohol/Drug Counselor. He is currently employed by the Nebraska
Synod and Region 5 Prevention Systems in the Faith Partners project.
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